A strong patriarchal culture
that is still exist in society makes women vulnerable to domestic violence.
Dependency on men in the household causes women silent when they receive
unpleasant or violent treatment. This mistake not only comes from men but also
from the women because they lack of gender understanding, education, and entirely
dependency on man.
These conditions are the
challenge for women from time to time. I am Elisabeth Uru Ndaya, a young woman
who have been involved in Stube-HEMAT trainings, I have concerns and want to do
something beneficial for Sumbanese women, especially in my own village, in
Tanatuku, the congregation of Sumbanese Christian Church of Karunggu. Through
women empowerment in economic and employment aspects, women are expected to be
able to improve their lives in this village. By increasing skills and
expertising women's resources through production, entrepreneurship, and
business management, woman will be able to take part larger than domestic life.
After having discussion
with Petrus Ndakularak, the Pastor and Chairman of the assembly in Sumbanese
Christian Church of Karunggu, and several youths, it was finally decided to
revive the women commission and youth commissions that were not active for a
long time. On September 1, 2019 became the starting point for me to approach
women in a small forum in one house of
the church member in Karunggu, accompanied by one church assembly.
I was very grateful
because I am the only one who has not married yet among them (commonly girls
are young married). The meeting itself was attended by 11 women and all of them
are housewives. In the first session, we started our discussion with an opening
prayer, shared problems they often face in taking care of family, discussed their involvement in
organization and observed what skills they have besides being a housewife. In
the second session I gave them an understanding and awareness of equality, how
to run creative economy and in the last session I suggested idea that every
meeting held is not just a gathering but also such a social women movement.
This is my first step in
accompanying women commission of Sumbanese Church of Karunggu to encourage them
to involve in one fellowship. Hopefully, with the presence of women commission,
it will increase their family welfare. (ELZ).
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